She told me that she was feeling completely off balance in her relationship. She was in love and enjoyed spending time with her partner. She said she finds it so hard to concentrate on her things like Yoga, Meditation, Journaling, healthy eating when in a relationship. Whereas when things go wrong and she finds herself single or depressed she makes sure she does all these things in hopes to be in a relationship.
So why is this? Why do we invest so much time, energy and money for our self-development when things go wrong in our lives? I'm a classical example of this. It wasn't until I was a complete wreck that I turned to Meditation and Reiki and started to take care of myself.
Since then I realised that this has to be an ongoing effort. We continuously have to feel well in our body, our skin, our soul and our mind for a relationship to be healthy and to work long-term.
Of course we can also take some time off and just enjoy a new relationship and feeling off balance, especially in the beginning, is completely normal.
But after that, do make sure you continue doing the things you love doing. Invest in your health, emotional well-being, your self-development. Continue to strive to be the best version of yourself you could possibly be. There is nothing worse than stagnant energy in your body and your mind, which will also create a stagnant energy in your relationships.
Our relationships are just an extension of ourselves. Are your relationships not working? Look deep within yourself and start working on yourself first. So many times I see people blaming their partners for this and that. But when they come for Reiki or other forms of healing I always find blockages within themselves too. Always! No exception! :-)